The Problem With “Holding People Accountable”

by | Apr 8, 2026

A senior leader said it plainly in a recent training session on accountability: “I feel like I’m constantly chasing people. If I don’t follow up, things just stall.”

There was no edge in her voice, but she sounded exhausted. She had a strong team of smart, capable people who cared about their work. And yet, deadlines were slipping, and she felt like she spent more time asking people for their work than actually discussing the work. Her question was, “How do I hold my employees accountable?”

It’s a common question, but the wrong question. “How do I hold my employees accountable?”  assumes the problem lives with the employee and that accountability is something people either have or don’t. 

That framing leads leaders toward the same set of moves: clearer direction, more reminders, tougher conversations when things go off track. And for a moment, it can feel like progress. Expectations are restated. Commitments are made. Everyone nods. But then the same pattern repeats.

A recent Gallup study found that managers tend to overestimate their effectiveness at creating accountability within their teams, and that it’s the leadership skill employees say is most lacking. This can be frustrating for leaders because it often seems as if employees don’t want to be held accountable! If they did, they’d do what you asked them to do!

But that assumption keeps the focus in the wrong place. Let’s hit the Pause button and look at accountability a different way.

When something falls short, it’s tempting to assume it’s a follow-through issue. That people didn’t execute, didn’t prioritize, or didn’t take ownership. Sometimes that’s true. More often, the real issue shows up earlier and in quieter ways.

Remember The Office episode where Charles, the temporary manager, asked Jim for a “rundown” of his clients? Jim said, “Sure!” And then for the rest of the episode, Jim is trying to figure out what a rundown is. He wants to do his job! But he has no idea what Charles wants, and he doesn’t ask because he doesn’t want his new boss to think he’s incompetent. 

The Office might have played it for laughs, but it doesn’t always feel funny in real life when expectations feel clear in the moment, but actually weren’t. Or when priorities may have shifted without being explicitly named. Check-ins may happen, but when the question is, “Are you on track to get me that rundown?” it’s not creating space for even the most confident employee to have an honest conversation. 

Most managers can feel this before the work ever goes sideways. There’s a moment, sometimes subtle, where something feels off. The commitment is vague or the confidence is shaky. More than once, a leader has told me, “I knew early on they weren’t going to do it.”

That instinct is usually right. But what happens next is where accountability either gets built or continues to break down.

Instead of pausing and getting clearer in that moment, it can feel easier to move on and hope it will come together. And then, when the work falls short, the conversation happens again at the end about missed expectations, lack of follow-through, or the need to “be more accountable.”

A More Useful Way To Think About Accountability

If leaders can sense when something is off early on, the question becomes what to do in that moment.

LAP Accountability is a Thoughtfully Fit Team tool that provides a framework to keep accountability conversations clear and intentional, especially on complex or longer-term work. Let’s take a look.

1. LAYOUT expectations and what success looks like

This is where accountability actually begins, even though it often gets the least attention.

At the start of a project or initiative, there’s usually a shared sense of direction. But shared understanding is often assumed rather than confirmed. Leaders move quickly, especially at a senior level, because the work feels familiar or the stakes feel urgent.

Slowing down here doesn’t mean over-explaining. It means making sure a few key things are explicitly clear:

  • What are we trying to accomplish, and why does it matter?
  • What does success look like in concrete terms?
  • What are the key milestones or decision points?
  • Who is responsible for what?
  • How involved will everyone be at different parts of the task?

When this step is rushed, teams move forward with slightly different versions of the same goal. That misalignment tends to stay hidden until later, when it’s harder to correct. This needs to be a conversation, not just one person giving directions.

Strong accountability starts by making expectations visible, not assumed.

2. ASSESS progress and give feedback

Once the work is underway, many leaders unintentionally create distance. Check-ins happen, but they lean toward status updates rather than meaningful conversations about progress.

This is where accountability either strengthens or starts to erode.

Assessing progress isn’t about hovering or inserting yourself into every detail. It’s about staying connected enough to the work that you can see how it’s actually unfolding, not just how it’s being reported.

That looks like:

  • Regular check-ins that go beyond “any updates?”
  • Conversations about what’s working and what’s getting in the way
  • Adjusting expectations when priorities shift
  • Offering feedback early, when it can still change the outcome

When this step is consistent, people don’t have to guess where they stand. They know what’s on track, what needs attention, and where to adjust. Accountability starts to feel shared, rather than imposed.

3. PINPOINT successes and misses

At the end of the work, there’s still an important role for reflection. This is where you step back and evaluate what happened compared to what was expected.

Done well, this isn’t about catching mistakes or assigning blame. It’s about learning clearly and carrying that learning forward:

  • Where did we hit the mark?
  • Where did we miss it, and why?
  • What should we repeat next time?
  • What needs to change?

Notice these are “we” questions, not “who” questions. That shift matters. It moves the conversation from blame to shared ownership, and it keeps the focus on improving the work.

This step works best when it isn’t the first time these topics are being discussed. If expectations were unclear or progress wasn’t closely assessed, the conversation can easily become heavier than intended. When the first two steps are strong, this final conversation becomes lighter, more honest, and more useful for the future.

Get ready for more LAPs

Depending on the scope of the task or project, there may be more than one LAP.

For smaller, contained work, one cycle may be enough. You lay out expectations, stay connected as the work progresses, and then pinpoint what worked and what didn’t at the end. But most senior leaders aren’t working on small, contained efforts. That’s where accountability often starts to slip, not because people aren’t capable, but because the project is getting more complex.

Instead of waiting until the very end to assess and recalibrate, you build in natural points to pause and reset:

  • Revisit expectations as conditions change
  • Check alignment when new stakeholders are involved
  • Assess progress at key milestones, not just at completion

This is what keeps accountability from drifting over time. It brings the work back into focus before small gaps turn into bigger misses. It also reinforces that accountability isn’t a one-time event. It’s something that gets built and rebuilt as the work evolves.

When leaders do this well, the final conversation at the end of a project feels different. There are fewer surprises, less blame, and a better foundation for the next project.

From Holding People Accountable To Building It As A Team

“How do I hold my employees accountable?” wasn’t the right question.  The better question is, “How am I setting this team up for accountability?”

When leaders shift their focus from holding people accountable at the end to building accountability throughout the entire process, something shifts. Conversations move from “Where is this?” to “How is this going?” And the work itself gets better.

Over time, that shift compounds. There’s less chasing, fewer surprises, and more shared ownership of the work as it unfolds. Not because people changed, but because the conditions around the work did. And then the results follow.

Frequently Asked Questions about Holding Employees Accountable

How do you hold employees accountable without micromanaging?

The key is to shift from enforcement to process. Instead of checking in only when something goes wrong, build accountability earlier by clearly laying out expectations, staying connected to progress, and addressing issues while the work is still in motion. When people know what’s expected and where they stand, you don’t need to hover.

What is the best way to improve accountability in a team?

Start by focusing on three points in the workflow: clearly defining expectations at the beginning, checking progress consistently during the work, and reflecting on outcomes at the end. Accountability improves when it’s built throughout the process, not just addressed after problems occur.

How do leaders create accountability in the workplace?

Leaders create accountability by setting clear expectations, maintaining regular and meaningful check-ins, and creating space for honest feedback. It’s less about holding people accountable after the fact and more about creating the conditions where accountability can happen naturally.

How often should managers check in on employee progress?

Check-ins should be frequent enough to catch issues early but not so frequent that they feel intrusive. The goal is to stay connected to real progress, not just status updates, so adjustments can happen before problems grow. Have the conversation with your employee to design the right cadence for check-ins and adjust as needed.

Why does accountability often fail in organizations?

Accountability fails when it’s treated as a one-time conversation instead of an ongoing process. When leaders rely too heavily on end-of-project discussions and underinvest in early clarity and mid-course check-ins, issues tend to repeat.

How do you build a culture of accountability?

A culture of accountability develops when expectations are consistently clear, communication is open, and progress is regularly discussed. Over time, this creates shared ownership and reduces the need for leaders to “enforce” accountability.

Looking for more information about leadership development? Be sure to check out: The Ultimate Guide to Leadership Development.

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Darcy Luoma, creator of Thoughtfully Fit®, is a Master Certified Coach, dynamic facilitator, and inspiring motivational speaker. She has worked as director for a U.S. Senator, deputy transition director for a governor, and on the national advance team for two U.S. presidential campaigns. As the owner and CEO of Darcy Luoma Coaching & Consulting, she’s worked in forty-eight industries with more than five hundred organizations to create high-performing people and teams. The media has named Darcy the region’s favorite executive-and-life coach four times. Darcy balances her thriving business with raising her two energetic teenage daughters, adventure travel, and competing in triathlons.

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