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December 15, 2020 By Darcy Luoma

High-Performing Teams Have Plenty of Conflict, But It’s Not Toxic

 

My clients often share that they don’t like conflict, and so they try to avoid it. But when I dig a little deeper, I learn it’s because they’ve mainly experienced negative conflict. Yelling. Hot tempers. Winners and losers. People pulling in opposite directions. When conflict gets toxic, that’s when teams get into trouble.

Yet the highest performing teams have a high level of conflict. In fact, conflict is good for teams—as long as it’s healthy and respectful—because it produces the best ideas and pushes the boundaries. When there’s no conflict, people don’t disagree, and the team doesn’t benefit from the variety of diverse ideas. 

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Filed Under: Conflict, Thoughtfully Fit Tagged With: conflict, conflict resolution, thoughtfully fit

December 8, 2020 By Darcy Luoma

Perpetual People Problems Don’t Have to Get in the Way

 

I’ve been writing my book, Thoughtfully Fit: Your Training Plan for Life and Business Success, for more than two years (if you count the time it was rolling around in my head, round it up to five). However, over the last few weeks, I’ve been in what my team has affectionately called “book mode.”

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Filed Under: Communication, Control, Flexibility, Thoughtfully Fit Tagged With: conflict, courage and compassion, flexibility, thoughtfully fit

February 6, 2018 By Darcy Luoma

Avoid conflict at all costs?

Once again, your passive aggressive colleague is sitting in your team meeting, arms crossed, eyes rolling, and not contributing. Do you call him out and embarrass him in front of the room? Say nothing in the moment but complain to others in the hallway after the meeting? Chances are neither of those will get you very far, but what if I told you there was a third choice? [Read more…]

Filed Under: Coach's Corner, Life Coaching, Thoughtfully Fit Tagged With: conflict, healthy conflict, thoughtfully fit, workplace conflict

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