I can’t tell you how many times I am on a coaching call, ask the client a question, and they say ‘huh! No one has ever asked me that before!’ For all the talking that we do, in general we do not ask enough questions.
The drive to fix, solve, give advice, or talk about your own experience almost always wins over curiosity and questions. And while there’s a time and place for all of those, questions can really help us access new awareness, get creative, understand the root of problems, and more. [Read more…]